Hampton Bay Zigbee ceiling fan problems

Every time power goes out I lose this controller. I tried “removing child device”. It removed child device (ceiling fan light), but did not add it back or make the ceiling fan work. So I removed ceiling fan, toggle circuit breaker 5 times (fan is hardwired to always on power). The ceiling fan light will flash, I try to add it back in ST. It finds ceiling fan (but not the light) and says, “Please wait” forever. Any help?

PS. This method is also very hard on my electronics. Toggling the circuit break multiple times, blew my UPS. I need to find a better solution

Can no one tell me what I’m doing wrong?