Itâs just how the Matter architecture was designed by the independent third party organization, the CSA.
All home automation platforms that want to use Matter need a Matter Commissioner (typically an app) and a Matter Controller (typically a hub). The Matter Commissioner is used to add new Matter devices to the platform. The Matter Controller is used to manage the messages being sent between devices in a way that follows the security and backup requirements for that specific platform.
Every platform participating in Matter has its own Matter Controller that will work only with its own platform.
If you want to use a Matter device with Apple Home (any Matter device, regardless of protocol) , you need a Matter Controller for the Apple platform, like the HomePod Mini or the Apple TV 4.
If you want to use a Matter device with Amazon Alexa, you need a Matter Controller for the Alexa platform, like the Echo Show 10 3rd generation or the Echo 4th generation or the new Echo hub.
If you want to use a Matter device with Google Home, you need a Matter Controller for the Google Home platform like the Nest Hub Max.
And if you want to use a Matter device with SmartThings, you need a Matter Controller for the SmartThings platform, like a standalone v3 hub or the hub built into some of the 2024 Samsung smart televisions.
At the time of this posting, Because different platforms have different security and backup procedures, you can only use a matter controller with its own specific platform. You canât use an apple HomePod mini as the matter controller for the Alexa or SmartThings platforms. You canât use a SmartThings V3 hub As the matter controller for Apple home or aqara.
Each platform has its own approved matter controller to manage the Matter messages being sent across its platform.
Your regular Wi-Fi router has no understanding of any of those requirements. So while you need it just to provide the basic transport structure, it by itself is not enough.
If you want to go deeper into a Technical discussion of the matter architecture we can, but we should take it to a new thread. 
Or you can do your own research at the official third-party standards organization for matter:
If you want the short answer, itâs one word: security. Matter did not standardize security protocols for all systems. So each home automation platform that wants to use matter has its own gatekeeper, the matter controller, that ensures that the messages being sent over its platform meet its own specific requirements for security. Since those requirements differ between the different home automation platforms, each one has to have its own gatekeeper to make sure that its own security rules are followed. {technical note for any other network engineers following alongâŚI know thatâs an oversimplification, but itâs still true and itâs easy for those who arenât as deep into the technical minutiae to understand, so just go with it for now.
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