I guess I’m missing something, even with the micro your going to have to access the light to wire it up.
You could go either route, I have a an Aeotec micro wired up on a 3 way setup in my upstairs Hall.
If you went with GE switches could you not follow this guide in the FAQ
There are other threads where people have gotten help wiring the Aeotec nano, I might have my old drawing where I wired my micro in a 3 way if that’s what your using.
There are other micro besides Aeotec too. Just have to hunt around.