Enerwave ZWN-RSM1S relay: synchronize Wall Switch position?

Purchased ZWN-RSM1S relays. It works fine but if you manually turn a light on, followed by using the app to turn it off- the actual switch position is wrong. Thereby physical turning off, the light comes on. Is there a setting that will keep the physical operation standard regardless of routines, app use, etc?

Most smart switches, regardless of brand, use a “momentary” switch which is like a standard doorbell button. It rests in the neutral position and only turns on when it is briefly activated.

These can look like anything, including a typical toggle switch, but instead of resting in up for on and down for off, they rest in the middle.

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So often when people install an in wall relay, they swap out the existing switch for a momentary dumb switch to avoid the problem that you are seeing.

But the relay itself will not physically move the dumb wall switch.