OK, that sounds like you directly bound the bulbs to the remote. In that case there’s no way for the hub to know what the status is.
What we would be looking for is something like what’s been done for the smartenIT 3 toggle device. It’s also a zigbee device, but instead of binding it directly to anything, we add it as a button controller. That way each button press is treated something like a contact sensor. That information goes to the hub, and we have a software set up so that when the hub detects the button being pressed, then the hub sends the instruction out to the desired device. This is how the minimote also works even though it’s a Zwave device.
That way the status gets updated because it’s actually the hub that is sending the instruction.