(I have moved your thread to projects so that you can get answers specific to your own situation)
There’s no one right answer on switches, as different models have different features and people have different preferences. For example, to some people the LED color makes a big difference and so they will only choose models that all have green LEDs or all have blue LEDs. For other people, support for double-tap is a much more important feature.
The following thread discusses the different features of different brands:
Regarding toggle switches, only one brand, GE/Jasco, makes network switches that are toggle rather than a rocker. The reason is that all of the network switches return to the center position after you press them. They don’t stay up for on or down for off. That means that on a toggle, The switch is sticking straight out most of the time, which a lot of people don’t like the look of. The neutral position is less obvious on a rocker.
