How to have a Fibaro dimmer match another device’s dim level?

You can group lights as it was described, but then you need to change on the group the brightness. If you change them individually, then they will have different values. But there are some old SmartApps intended for this

Or you can use WebCoRE or Sharptools.io 's rule engine to define, if a changes, then change b too. Etc.
There are multiple ways to do similar things.