Wireless 3 way Dimmable switches

Sure, lots of people do something similar to control smart bulbs when they don’t want the wall switch to cut the power to the bulb. Instead the switch sends a message to the hub and the hub send a message to the bulb. Your use case would be similar. The switch sends a message to the hub, the hub sends a message to the outlet. So look at those threads, they should give you ideas.

Start with the following FAQ (this is a clickable link)