Sounds like you are using smart bulbs instead of switches. There are several threads discussing which is better. Tastes Great vs Less Filling.
Personally I prefer switches, but I still use a few bulbs. The most annoying part about bulbs for me is when there is a power outage and then they all are turned on when the power is restored. There are a few apps that help with that, but my grid gets switched fast so it’s always too quick to register with the app, just the bulbs.
experiment with a switch and decide for yourself which works better for you.