Meh, I don’t talk to my house much. Although I do have Alexa setup so perhaps I could…but I use Siri and apple ecosystem more. So I choose devices that work across all of it now where I can. HomeKit is way too limited to be more than something that I play with even though it’s super stable. Hue, idevices, etc work across both…
I had a discussion recently (can’t remember where) in which I stated that HomeKit has a “pre-installed base” numbering in the millions, because of the dedication of so many folks to the Apple ecosystem. And that this installed base, combined with the relative stability of the Apple ecosystem, means Apple is not as hopelessly far behind in the smarthome wars as many imagine.